on a need-to-know basis:

-we are smoke free! ashtrays outdoors only.
-RSVPs are gratefully appreciated!
-as are donations for snacks and beverages!
-you are welcome to BYOB (we'll even do the recycling!)
-this is a private residence, so be on your best behavior
--um, just be nice or leave, ok?

Email us at mariabarry@gmail.com for more information.